Let’s kick this off with one of the simplest options. A lot of well-endowed men find that Missionary can be too deep, and the angle can be too uncomfortable. If you’re a fan of Missionary, try this easy trick: staying inside of her, rotate your body away from hers. If you were to have a bird’s eye view of the two of you, your bodies would be forming an “X”. Changing the angle in this way pulls you out a bit and makes it more comfortable for her, but you can still maintain some of the closeness and ease of Missionary. Try these low-key-but-effective moves if you're not into being raunchy. You’ll be resting on your knees, with your butt on your ankles.
Have her lift her legs into the air, cross them, then rest one ankle on each of your shoulders (so her legs form an “X”). This will create a nice tight fit for you, so you won’t feel like you’re missing out by not going all the way in. It also gives her a bit of control to push back against you with her legs if you’re causing any pain.Ĭowgirl is another position that’s usually off-limits for big guys since the penetration is just too deep, but this variation can be much more manageable. Lie on your back and have her get on top. She’s in control, so she can go as slowly or as shallowly as she needs. Once you’re in, she should put her hands behind her body and lean back.